Were the world sane all the people I’ve met with over the past two days would be a realistic snapshot of how the entire population would view breastfeeding. Every single one was excited that I’ve been trying my hardest to breastfeed. Not one of them minded me whipping out a boob (discreetly) in their office or in the cafeteria. The only semi-negative comment I got was regarding how long I would like to breastfeed.
“Three years? That’s a looooong time…Well, it’s a long way away. We’ll talk abut it when we get closer to it…”
But even that was countered by an amazing woman who said, “I breastfed my son until he was 2 and a half. He weaned himself.”
If only everyone was that positive about breastfeeding, I wouldn’t need to spend 30 minutes at the back of a parking lot feeding my son before we go in anywhere.
We found out today that Ben’s 23.25 inches long and 10lbs 6oz – This means he’s in the 6th percentile for weight and 25th percentile for height. I was told, “He’s just tall and skinny like his dad.” Of course, I’m still worried but I’m trying not to be.
I also tried Lactaid for the first time (Yummeh!!!) and am really hoping Ben doesn’t get gas from it so I can start eating cereal again. If he’s lactose intolerant, he should be fine. However, if has a dairy allergy, it’ll probably still send raucous gas shooting out of his butt.
On that note, one or two of my entries may be password protected soon. I’d like to talk about things that are very personal and somewhat controversial, but am afraid it may cause some unneeded problems. It’s ridiculous that I’m even questioning being completely straightforward, but I’d rather avoid any negativity. These things are hard enough for me to discuss without the stress of worrying about how it makes others feel about me. Should they become protected, you’ll only need email me for the password.
It’s when your baby gets bigger that people will give you looks–I found that breastfeeding a little itty baby is just plain cute
You want to breastfeed until preschool? 3 is a pretty big kid. You mean like once a week breast feeding? My land lady did that with her youngest (now 34) weird, but OK.
Go the boobies! We’re lucky here in Europe. No one minds boobs. In fact, women wearing tops in summer are pelted with stones and treated like the carneys and circus folk they are.
I know exactly what you mean. I was scared to nurse Eden in public for a long time and just packed around a bottle of expressed milk. With Kailey, I’ve just let it go and I nurse her everywhere. So far, no negative comments. I still wish I could figure out how to nurse in the moby, but that’ll take some practice. Anyway, props to you! My goal with Kailey is two years, so I’m glad I’m not the only extended breastfeeder around.
You gotta speak your mind safely.
And in case I haven’t said it lately, you are the breastfeeding bomb. I hope you know how inspiring you are.
Im so glad you found people who are accepting of your choice to breastfeed Ben. I think all people should be that way!
I think breastfeeding is a wonderful thing, and a very beneficial thing. I still think it’s outrageous that breasts have been so oversexualized in our society that women can’t even BF their babies in public without fear of retaliation.
Sounds like Ben is growing well!
Your attitude about breastfeeding is wonderful!
My son is 25 months old and I am watching him wean himself. Its a lovely thing to experience.
Im saddened to hear about your supply issues. Im sure you’ve tried this, but I thought to ask: have you tried fenugreek? Motherlove makes a product called “more milk plus” in tincture form or pill. The drops taste nasty, but I used both. I didnt really have supply issues, but was paranoid, like many moms. Especially about maintaining a supply once I went back to work. I wanted to have a stash in the freezer just in case. Whenever I would dose up on the fenugreek my boobs would plump up about a day or two later and I’d fill those bottles up!
It worked for some other people I know as well. Worth a try…
I really wish our society were more accepting of breastfeeding. No woman should ever have to feel ashamed of feeding her child. I’m glad you’ve got some people in your life who are encouraging. It makes it so much easier!
It would be so nice if people would stop getting weirded out over breastfeeding. It’s not like it’s a new concept. I’m so glad you had some support!!! That’s awesome!
Yay on breastfeeding! I”m so glad things are going better for you & Ben on that aspect!!
And I agree w/ canape. Your blog, your feelings.
Breastfeeding good.
Go Ben! He’s doing so well and you are rockin this bf’ing stuff! My opinion is nurse him until one or both of you is done, whether that 3 months or three years. Only you know what’s right for you!
In case I haven’t told you today, I’m so proud of you. And I’m happy you found people to support you. Keep on keepin’ on!
Oh, and it’s been a few days, so I’m hoping Ben’s booty is handling the lactaid and you are now happily munching on some apple jacks or grape nuts or whatever it is that floats your breakfast boat!
I coulda swore I commented on this but I alas didn’t. I am sure it was something snarky, snort. Anyway, good growin’ Benny Boy.
Oh I did see, I am weird and tired and very forgetful. Feel free to delete.
Wow, sounds like you’re really dedicated to breast feeding – good for you! If you can make it to three years then I say go for it. I wanted to go longer too, but unfortunately my son weaned himself at about 13 months. Maybe I shouldn’t say unfortunately, though. It’s a great feeling to know at least HE took it as far as he wanted! Your blog looks just great, by the way!
OK time for an update! What’s Ben been doing lately? Are you meeting any nice people, getting out at all? Do write!
You might have a different way of taking care of your kid (and seeing the world for that matter) but that’s why I’ve always seen you as a unique and strong individual.
If you are still having issues with breastfeeding, my mom does acupuncture/herbal medicine, and she said she has a ton of stuff that helps. I’m hoping to use her as a resource so I can breatfeed.
And who the hell cares if you password protect some entries. Blogs are for you, first and foremost.
This is great and I wish it were more common. I also hate that feeling that I need to time everything out perfectly and allow enough time to sit in the car to breastfeed before going in anywhere.
I love your new layout!