Ways to Not Be a Jerk

Not being a jerk does not equal being “politically correct,” it means just not being a jerk.

State your opinion, but understand it is only an opinion. “Red shoes are the BEST for everyone.” Now, with tact: “I believe red shoes are the best.”

Having a strong opinion about something is awesome, pushing it on other people is not. “Everyone should wear red shoes, now.” Tact: “Red shoes are the best for me.”

Respecting someone else’s opinion is not a bad thing. “You’re wrong, blue shoes are for horrible people.” Tact: “I prefer red shoes, but I totally get that so many people love blue shoes.”

Being judgemental is not a mortal sin, but it’s still a pretty crappy thing to do. “Anyone who doesn’t wear red shoes doesn’t deserve to have feet.” Tact: “I’m a raging jerk for judging you because you haven’t chosen the same thing I have. I’m sorry.”

I must be hormonal because I’m getting more and more annoyed with people disregarding others thoughts and opinions. I don’t get why it’s so hard to just be nice.

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